You know I once watched this particular movie where this character; a writer of some sort asked all the heroin exes how she likes her eggs and vice versa and every single time she got it wrong. Boiled? Poached egg? Sunny side up? Egg Benedict? Scramble egg?
What with their favourite egg. They just eggs. Not?
Read between the lines then. She was searching for a soul mate but Bamm! It turn out she don’t even know the simplest favourite of them.
Where am I going with this? What I’m trying to say is that man and woman are such complicated being. We are so complicated that we need people to write book about this. How do you think Woman from Venus and Man from Mars become so successful bestseller? It is the fact that we are so clueless of each other existence that if we are even curse and turn into Garmin we still go the wrong direction!
It just boggled me sometimes.
Having said that, we can’t deny the attraction. How we ogled, jaw dropped, salivating and melt at every “tak larat act” of the opposite. Just a simple smile can transmit high voltage current and shock you to the core.
Divorce. I heard this world so very often that I somehow registered this horrid word in my mind along side the usual vocabulary I vocalize every day. People seem to get separated on ridiculous reason these days.
Hence, at some point I kinda got scare of the M word. Of what lies beneath the M after 5 years? 10 years?
Is he right? Should I make another trip around the world scouring for the other half? Is he good man? Bad father? Abusive? Undecisive? Selfish? Romantic? Insensitive? Too sensitive?
But then again Muslim should always believe in Qada’ and Qadar. It the best mantra to keep life going. If it work out fine. Praise be to Allah. If it’s not, there must be something better in store for you.